How To Stop Drowning In Self Pity & Victimhood and Start Manifesting An Abundant & Fulfilling Life

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Do you ever feel like life is against you? Do you walk around feeling angry most of the time? Do you spend a lot of your time feeling envious of others? Do you feel cheated or that life has been unfair to you? Well if you answered yes to any of the above then you will likely agree that you feel like, and perhaps even believe yourself to be, a victim. If you would like to permanently shed the mantle of this powerless state then this might interest you.

Victim status comes to those individuals who carry within them a history negative memories from early life that continues to haunt and dis-empower them. To a large extent, and this may surprise you, this includes practically everyone on the planet. Why is that you ask? Well because everyone has at one time or other experienced a negative event and most have experienced more than one.

Those negative memories reside in the unconscious mind and from there they serve as a reminder of where you came from and most importantly, as many believe, who you are. Yes, who you are, because many individuals believe that their life history "makes up" who they are. In other words they have completely, and without question chosen to identify themselves with those memories.

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Now here you may say "Well of course they make up who I am. After all they happened to me, they have impacted on my personal development and therefore represent who I am." If that is the case then if many of those memories are of negative life events then what does that make you? Well, a victim!

So, having defined yourself in this way how do you change that? Well, you may say "By taking control of my life and making it better." Indeed that is what many try to do but that does not change that stuff inside you that is ever present and, believe it or not, still affects how you feel about yourself, and about how life and others treat you.

You see, the only real way to stop being and feeling like a victim is to permanently stop identifying yourself with that negative history. So how does one do that without outright denying that it happened? Well, clearly denying it isn't going to change anything because it will still be there inside you.

The only way to accomplish this dis-identification is to completely and permanently erase the negative past from the unconscious mind and body. How does one do that? Well there is a new coaching process developed over 10 years ago that has the capacity to permanently clear the slate of the unconscious mind of such negativity. The effects are such that one is left feeling like the memories never actually took place.

What's more the individual's self image alters completely from one of victim to that of a confident, empowered, optimistic and successful individual.